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Month: December, 2014

Why I Love Women With Curves…

May sound like to much but he is our mentor in the Blog world. We have enjoyed and follow his teachings

DominantSoul

kkcover2(rgb)watermarkIn my mind, there is nothing more arousing than a sexy curvy woman. There is no such thing as too curvy – there can never be too many curves in an alluring hourglass figure. I love to watch a curvy woman walk and move. Every single feminine curve speaks to my primitive male mind. They quietly whisper “Come devour me like an animal”…

Enjoy  my latest writing “In Praise of a Curvy Goddess…”

http://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/sensual-domination/in-praise-of-a-curvy-goddess/

~DominantSoul

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Putting the puzzle together

Over the course of our marriage, we‘ve experienced so very much together. Nothing could have prepared us for our role changing in the way we are experiencing it now. Our relationship as Daddy and Baby Girl seems like a name to the roles we‘ve both played at and needed for the 20 years we‘ve been together. As an Alpha female in my professional life, I‘ve needed something to balance me in my personal life and my bed. Naturally, Daddy has always been dominate. Not consciously knowing and recognizing the roles we play in all the aspects of our lives has hampered us in our personal and sexual growth. When we tripped over the subject of cosplay, Daddy mentioned a baby doll outfit in an offhanded “she doesn’t want to consider itkind of way. He was shocked and disbelieving when I told him I like that, a lot. I haven’t always shared my wants and needs with my Daddy. In a way I believe it was the Alpha in me not wanting to seem weak although conversely, I have always felt that I needed to be taken care of, to be safe, protected and even punished. Our conversation grew, and pieces of the puzzle started to move together. We can both look back over the course of our relationship and see where we both needed to, and probably should have, been in a D/s marriage. The Daddy/Baby Girl model is more suited to us than any other BDSM roles. Not only do we have a history, we have the deepest love and respect for each other, and we are neither sadistic nor masochistic. Our D/bg relationship is built on sensuality, personal and sexual growth. The hard play, rules, punishment and reward are all parts of the puzzle we are putting together as Daddy and Baby Girl. The puzzle pieces are the facets of our personalities that we couldn’t find a place to fit into the roles we had assumed were correct.

A new begining as BabyGirl and Daddy D/s

After 19 years of marriage some times you find out somthing new about your partner. Every once in a blue moon you find that thing that brings you closer than you have ever been to them. The feeling that it is just like you are meeting each other for the first time all over again. My wife and I think we have found that thing and would like to try to tell our story here. Yes we know that no one may read it, but thats not what matters to us. Being able to put our feelings and advetures into words helps us to open up more and makes our bond stronger.

 Can any one recommend reading material about the Daddy Dom life style, or books that teach BDSM of this kind? We have found a lot of books but mostly poorly written “Smut”, for lack of a better term. We are looking for well writen teaching guides to help us understand and explore deeper into this life style.